Hate how people treat food and diabetes

I am so tired of hearing how bad all food is for diabetics besides salad, this comes from family who know about how diabetes actually works.

Eat cheese? It has to much that it's bad for you Eat meats? Cholesterol will kill you Nuts? You are irresponsible because of the costs Avocado? You damn millinials and avocado toast!!!

I legit catch more grief from family when I eat low or zero carb meals than when I eat high carb meals. Is it like this for all diabetics?