Does it actually get easier?

I'm 14 and have had type 1 for about 2 years...everyone I talk to about diabetes always says "it gets easier" but for me it feels like it's getting worse...I've been in hospital twice because of DKA and once for a hypo...my doctor gets more annoyed every time I see him about my control and hba1c and my parents are constantly hassling me about my blood sugar and blaming me whenever it isn't perfect.

The whole thing (plus other stuff in my life) makes me feel really depressed and I wish I was never diagnosed with this shit disease because it feels like my whole life is controlled by type 1 and I hate it so much. How does it get easier? If it even does?